Part 2 - How to get close without getting hurt
Chapter 4 Unveiled Faces: Authenticity
p 69 The decision to sin always includes the thought that I cannot really trust God to watch out for my well-being.
p 72 [In the Fall] The man and the woman decide there is something they want more than community with God. They do not trust Him. They disobey.
p 74 To know and be known - which had always been the greatest joy of the human race - now becomes the greatest fear of the human race.
p78 Since we have the assurance of God's love no matter what, we can do a very bold thing. We don't have to pretend to be more radiant than we really are. We can live with "unveiled faces". (reference to Moses)
p 80 The irony of the masks is that although we wear them to make other people think well of us, they are drawn to us only when we take them off.
Self-disclosure has enormous power.
p 81 Jesus lived a common life. He let his friends see him in unveiled moments of joy, sadness, anger and fatigue.
p 83 Sin causes us to seek hiddenness and separation, which in turn destroy community. In confession, we enter back into community. We come out of hiding. Dietrich Bonhoeffer wrote, "If a Christian is in the fellowship of confession with a brother, he will never be alone again, any where."
p 86 In real life we live in a fallen world. We all fall, we fall often, and sometimes hard. If we try to handle our fallenness on our own, if we try to keep it secret, eventually it will destroy us. God has made a better way. He has formed a community in which people can live with unveiled faces. It really is possible to do life without hiding. All it takes is trust.
**this last point is so HARD! Trust is hard, and living unveiled is hard. Especially when or if you feel that you are one of very few doing so or if others around you seem uninterested, unwilling, or simply too busy to bother with another person... even a fellow Jesus follower.