|Photo has nothing to do with the post - I just love that Piper and Fender are buddies|
It is January 15th, which means it is payday at our house. Steve gets paid monthly and we are a single income family. We have lived this way for 16 years.
Amazing? Perhaps ... but I like to think not really. More I recognize that we have the blessings we have because God has poured them out for our family. Not because we deserve it...no... far from it!
We fully acknowledge that every good gift comes from the One and only God who loves us beyond comprehension - enough that He sent His only Son to die for us. Because we acknowledge and accept that gift of grace, we know full well that every other gift is from Him as well.
Which makes payday every month a really tangible time to remember and be thankful. God's math works when it makes no sense for it to work.
Most people will tell you that it is impossible in this day and age to live on one income. I disagree strongly and can point you to multiple families I know that do and have made it work. Does it mean you have to make choices? Of course! But we all make tons of choices every day. Does it sometimes mean sacrifice? Probably, but I think that depends on your definitions and falls again into choices.
Would I ever make different choices that would have meant I had kept my full-time job after J was born? Not likely. The benefits of being home...raising and educating these young people... increasing my own skills and knowledge in the process... can never compare to just a paycheck. No new car or vacation would be worth the sacrifice of the relationships I have with my children.
Every month when the paycheck is deposited and we have the blessing of giving back to God and can pay all the bills and have enough left over to buy groceries & gas and whatnot until the next paycheck.... I am thankful again and again.
Never do I want to take for granted the gifts He pours out for us.
Blessings on the journey~